Friday, August 10, 2012

Life's a banquet

I'm not sure what got me thinking about "Auntie Mame" the other day.  I found myself mentally going through a list of strong childless/free women -- and suddenly Mame appeared at the top of the staircase in my mind, cigarette holder in one hand & martini glass in the other.

I can't remember whether I read the 1955 novel by Patrick Dennis first or saw the movie musical with Lucille Ball as Mame (and Bea Arthur -- Maude, as we knew her then -- hilarious as her best buddy, the perpetually hungover actress Vera Charles). (I do remember that I was about 13 & going into Grade 8 -- we had recently moved to a new town, and that was one of the first movies my mother, sister & I went to see in a rickety old theatre on the main street, which burned down shortly afterward).  I later saw the Rosalind Russell non-musical movie from 1958, as well as the musical onstage in a local summer theatre production.

The story of "Auntie Mame" begins as Mame's recently orphaned young nephew, Patrick, arrives at her Manhattan townhouse in the middle of a wild party -- this being the 1920s era of flappers, bathtub gin, speakeasies and the like. The freespirited Mame is completely unprepared for the responsibility of bringing up a child, and has some highly unconventional ideas about how to do it -- but of course, he turns out just fine in the end and makes her very proud.

I loved Mame in all her incarnations -- and most especially the lesser-known sequel to the book, "Around the World with Auntie Mame," which I discovered in the library when I was in junior high and read over & over & over again. Mame takes her nephew Patrick on a tour of Europe prior to sending him off to college, and each chapter details a new adventure in a different country.  I haven't read the book in at least 30 years (although I bought a copy a few years ago through Amazon), and I'm sure parts of it would be considered highly politically incorrect these days -- but I just remember it as screamingly funny, and wondered why nobody had ever made a movie out of it, too.

Now, I am nothing like Mame -- I'm far too conventional -- but I do adore my two nephews.  And you have to love someone whose motto is "Life is a banquet, and most poor suckers are starving to death." Sometimes, I think we need to be reminded of that -- both about how fortunate we are, compared to so many others out there, and about the banquet of experiences out there, just waiting to be sampled. What are we waiting for?

10 comments:

  1. I saw the Rosalind Russell version, and loved it. Mame was so fabulously chic and on-trend and quite progressive when it came to politics and art. I always kind of wanted an Auntie Mame in my life ;) My grandmother was a bit like Mame except she wasn't in the heart of Greenwich Village...

    Now I may need to read the book :)

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  2. I saw the Rosalind Russell version, and loved it. Mame was so fabulously chic and on-trend and quite progressive when it came to politics and art. I always kind of wanted an Auntie Mame in my life ;) My grandmother was a bit like Mame except she wasn't in the heart of Greenwich Village...

    Now I may need to read the book :)

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  3. I hadn't heard of this book, and I'm very intrigued to read! The title now is in my Amazon wish list, ever growing. lol

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  4. I've never read/heard of those books, but they sound funny. I should probably check those out sometime :)

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  5. Not 10 minutes ago I was thinking I need to find a good book. One to make me laugh and feel good.

    Thanks for the recommendation! Mame it is!

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  6. Now there's a blast from the past I should revisit. I'm sure I'll find several new layers of meaning (and how to make gin in the bathtub?)

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  7. I've never heard of these books. I do love that life motto though. It's a good reminder to me.

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  8. You make a good point and I really needed to hear this. Thanks. Oddly, I don't believe I've ever seen it. I think I would have made a great Aunt Mame. Why I just had a gin & tonic yesterday!

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  9. Just wanted to pop by and see how you were doing, hope things are okay.

    (I didn't realize there was a sequel, I'll have to go check that out!)

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  10. Wow - I love this cover! From the sound of it, I would've loved Aunt Mame when I was a youngin'. I'll have to track these books down and read them myself.

    Just found your blog after searching about for living childless/free and though there is not a lot out there, it's good to see others are sharing their stories. *nice to meet you* :)

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