One of my friends from our support group said she couldn't listen to "It Only Hurts When I'm Breathing" after the loss of her daughter -- it just hit too close to home. Whenever she was listening to the CD in her car, she would skip over that song. She didn't think anyone noticed, but nope, her two other kids did & asked her why! I can't remember what she told them, but I do remember that story.
I haven't read the book yet -- trying to resist until I finish the book I'm currently reading (a bad habit I have...!) -- but of course I couldn't resist flipping through a few pages. Would you believe, when the story opens with her birth, the doctors thought she was stillborn, because she came out blue & not breathing??
And there's a great quote on the back cover that resonated with me:
"When everything goes without a hitch, where's the challenge, the opportunity to find out what you're made of?"