Monday, May 31, 2021
#MicroblogMondays: 215
Sunday, May 30, 2021
"Still Glides the Stream" by D.E.Stevenson
"Still Glides the Stream" covers familiar territory for a DES novel, both geographically and thematically. After 12 years of military service, during WWII and afterwards, Will Hastie returns to his father's estate in Scotland to take up farming. His best friend from boyhood, Rae, died during the war, and Rae's younger sister Patty is engaged to her cousin Hugo, who is also (conveniently) the new heir to her father's estate since Rae's death. Before he died, Rae sent Patty a final letter, hinting at a big secret he hopes to share with the family on his next leave home. When Patty shares the letter with Will, he decides to head to France for a holiday to investigate. What he learns there will change everyone's lives...
Like Stevenson's other books, this is a warm, gentle little story of a bygone era -- sometimes almost too much so, perhaps? One Goodreads reviewer points out the novel's "Anglo-chauvinism." For example, the people Will meets in France are almost uniformly disagreeable, to the point of caricature. And Julie's sacrifice might seem somewhat horrifying to modern readers, but there was likely no doubt in the minds of readers of the day that it was the proper thing for her to do.
Still, despite its flaws, it's a sweet, rather wistful story of post-war grief and loss, with the well-drawn characters and lovely descriptions that were Stevenson's hallmark.
3.5 stars on Goodreads, rounded up to 4.
I've volunteered to organize our group's discussion of this book (after we've finished reading and discussing "Summerhills" together, later this summer)... I suppose I didn't have to read it first to get volunteers and a discussion schedule organized, but I usually read do the book through once myself in advance of our chapter-by-chapter discussions. I'm glad I did it now, and I'll count it again as a re-read once we're finished our discussions, later this summer.
Saturday, May 29, 2021
Odds & ends
- Crazy weather this week: Tuesday, we reached 30C and a humidex reading of 35C (that's 86F and 95F). The air conditioner was running non-stop. Yesterday, we woke up to 3C/37F, and rain mixed with... SNOW?!! On May 28th!! Gotta love springtime in Canada, lol...
- Gateway Women's Jody Day said she wanted to make 2021 her "Year of the Podcast" -- and she's getting her wish, lol. She's been spreading the word about childlessness on one podcast after another recently, including three this month (so far!) -- and most of them outside the childless community, too:
- On "A Certain Age" with Katie Fogarty, Jody talked about being childless at midlife and how to be a better friend and ally to the childless women in your life.
- On How to Be Sad with Helen Russell, Jody touches on various aspects of childless-related grief (and talks about some things she's never publicly discussed before).
- On the Virgin.Beauty.B!tch podcast, Jody takes a deep dive into some of the societal and structural issues around life without children that rarely get discussed -- including how pronatalism and consumerism have fetishized and commodified motherhood, and how this oppresses all women, whether they are mothers or not. (And how it all started with Demi Moore...!) Says Jody: "This interview goes places other interviews I've done have not." It's fascinating!
- I haven't actually listened to all of these yet, but podcast transcripts are available to read on the Gateway Women website, under "News."
- In her TEDx talk a while back, Jody called childless people "the biggest workplace diversity issue that HR has never heard of." That's starting to change! Gateway Women operations director Karin Enfield and GW members Shar and Cecilia recently took part in an online conversation about childless women in the workplace. It was hosted by Julia Fomoniva, the founder of an organization called Human Rocks, who is advocating for more support for childless employees in HR policies. They were also joined by Dr. Galina Boiarintseva, Assistant Professor of Management at Niagara University in Ontario, who does academic research into diversity & inclusion policies for childless employees. This is an important issue that is FINALLY beginning to get some attention as a valid concern alongside other diversity and inclusion issues. Watch this groundbreaking conversation on YouTube here.
- I've created a new tag/label for posts on this blog that mention interesting podcasts.
Thursday, May 27, 2021
Tuesday, May 25, 2021
"Summerhills" by D.E. Stevenson
"Chronicles of Avonlea" by L.M. Montgomery (re-read)
We're just wrapping up our discussion of "Chronicles." (My initial review of the book from my first read-through is here.) I'll admit I didn't re-read every single story in the book ;) but I have still been following along with the discussions and occasionally throwing in my two cents. My initial review cautioned that "many of these stories are definitely of their time, and contain themes/elements that those of us who have been through infertility or childlessness might find uncomfortable or even offensive." I was relieved to find, during our discussions, that others shared my concerns about some of the more more dated elements of the book that haven't aged very well (ALI-related and otherwise). At the same time, our discussions also deepened my understanding and appreciation of other elements of the stories.
But, not enough for me to change my initial Goodreads rating, of 3.5 stars, rounded down to 3. :)
Our next LMM book will be announced shortly. If you're an LMM fan, you are welcome to join us, at the link above! :)
This was Book #30 read to date in 2021 (and Book #7 finished in May), bringing me to 83% of my 2021 Goodreads Reading Challenge goal of 36 books. I am (for the moment, anyway...!) 16 books ahead of schedule. :) You can find reviews of all my books read to date in 2021 tagged as "2021 books."
Monday, May 24, 2021
#MicroblogMondays: Pronatalism in... hockey?? ;)
Pronatalism applies to guys too! We were watching the local suppertime TV newscast on Saturday night, prior to game #2 of the Toronto Maple Leafs versus Montreal Canadians (playoffs series) -- always a big story hereabouts, of course...! Earlier this week in Game #1, the Leafs young captain, John Tavares, was injured (concussion), and they expect he'll be out for at least two weeks while recovering. There was a clip of the team's GM being interviewed, and my ears pricked up at one of his comments. I found a transcript of his remarks later, and here's one of the things he said [emphasis mine]:
The head injury and the concussion is difficult to place a timeline on for when someone is going to return. We handle those in a very conservative nature and handle them very sensitively. We will follow the protocols to a T with that. We can’t replace that element with John and can’t repair it. We have to be very careful and keep in mind that he has a young family and there is an onus on us to protect him and his future in that regard.
I yelled at the TV, "What if he DIDN'T have a young family? You'd just send him back out there, because his life and health and future is less valuable then??"
(Dh just rolled his eyes at me, lol. Sorry -- once your eyes are opened to this kind of stuff, you see it EVERYWHERE!)
You can find more of this week's #MicroblogMondays posts here.




