Monday, May 31, 2021

#MicroblogMondays: 215

(Not a micropost today, but it's what I've got...!)  

My country is reeling with the news that the bodies of 215 children -- some as young as three years old -- have been found buried in unmarked graves on the grounds of a former Indian residential school in Kamloops, British Columbia. Available records indicated that 50 children died in the years the school operated (from 1890 to 1978), but the actual number was rumoured to be much higher. 

Now we know those rumours were true. 

And we also know this is just the tip of the iceberg.   

The Kamloops school was just one of more than 130 Indian residential schools that operated across the country, beginning in the 1830s. (And 215 x 130 = ....??)  The last school closed in 1996 -- just 25 years ago. Seventy percent were run by the Catholic church and affiliated organizations (religious orders, etc.);  others by the Anglican church and other Protestant denominations.  More than 150,000 Indigenous children were removed from their families and communities over the years to attend these schools, as part of a plan to "civilize" (assimilate) them. Many of these children were sexually, physically and emotionally abused and malnourished. Illness and disease ran rampant in crowded classrooms and dormitories. 

Many children never returned home. 

Some have called this cultural genocide. 

The discovery of these bodies is horrific and horribly sad -- but what's really sad is that I'm not completely surprised. In fact, my biggest surprise is that other people are so surprised. I've been scrolling through Twitter this morning and I was agog at the numbers of people saying they had never heard about the residential schools, let alone what happened inside them. 

Most of the schools were located in the Canadian west, where I grew up, so perhaps that's why I'm more aware of them than, say, someone who grew up in southern Ontario. (Here's a map of the schools locations.)  I knew that they existed when I was a teenager -- not because they taught this kind of stuff in school back then (they didn't -- and still don't, to a large extent), but because the community in Manitoba where I lived and went to junior and senior high school had a residential school on the outskirts of town. It was still in operation when we lived there, in the 1970s -- although I think perhaps by then the students just lived there and attended schools in town, because some of the residents were my schoolmates. It closed in 1975 and is now a museum. (The name of the chief in this story sounded familiar -- I dragged out my yearbook and sure enough, he & I went to school together, although I never knew him personally.)  But I didn't know the full story of what went on there, and in the other schools, until some years later. 

I can't pinpoint exactly when I became aware of what happened -- but this is not a new story for anyone who's been paying attention over the past 30+ years. Someone on Twitter mentioned a CBC television movie called "Where the Spirit Lives" as their first introduction to the residential schools and what happened there. The name rang a bell for me (although I don't think I watched it). I Googled, and it was made in 1989. (It looks like you can watch it YouTube.) 

In the 1990s, some class action lawsuits were launched -- and then a Royal Commission on Aboriginal Peoples. One of its recommendations was a a public inquiry into the residential schools and their effect on generations of Aboriginal peoples. A Truth and Reconciliation Commission was launched in 2009, with hearings held across the country. Its final report was issued in 2015. There were many stories about students who disappeared overnight, of children who never returned to their families, and of mass unmarked graves. 

Here's a timeline of key events in the history of the residential schools. 

I've seen demands on social media that the federal government apologize. Ummm, they did. Back in 2008. Billions of dollars in compensation have been paid out to survivors since then. During the 1980s and 1990s, many of the churches involved also issued apologies. While individual bishops and orders within the Roman Catholic Church have apologized, the church/pope has yet to issue a collective formal apology.  

This is not something that just came to light in the late 20th/early 21st century either. In scanning Twitter, I found an amazing thread about Canada's chief medical officer, Peter Henderson Bryce, who raised the alarm about conditions in the schools... in 1907! A report he authored -- which made front page news at the time -- estimated that one quarter of the students had died of tuberculosis. Bryce was ultimately pushed out of public service and wound up publishing another report independently in 1922 -- almost a full century ago! -- laying blame squarely at the feet of the federal government. (Here's a digitized copy of the report -- titled "The Story of a National Crime.")  

Racism against Indigenous peoples is (still) rampant in the places where I grew up, and among some of my family members and friends. I've struggled to overcome my own deeply ingrained prejudices and knee-jerk reactions. (I like to think I've made some progress.) Sometimes we only see what we want to see. One would like to think, though, that the unrecorded, unmarked graves of 215 children merits some national attention and soul-searching.  As a friend said on social media, our country very publicly grieved the deaths of 16 young (white) hockey players in a bus crash in Saskatchewan a few years back, right?  Why should this be considered any less horrific than that? 

Every child matters. (Or should.) 

And those who forget their history (or never learn it in the first place) are, sadly, doomed to repeat its mistakes. 

You can find more of this week's #MicroblogMondays posts here.  

Sunday, May 30, 2021

"Still Glides the Stream" by D.E.Stevenson

"Still Glides the Stream" by D.E. Stevenson (first published in 1959) is sometimes referred to as a "sequel" to "Amberwell" and "Summerhills," both about the Ayrton family -- and the link to those two books is partly why my DES online discussion group chose this as our next selection. Amberwell and a couple of members of the Ayrton family do make a cameo appearance in this book (characters and settings from one DES book often pop up in another), and it takes place in the same general area, but it's really a completely separate volume/story unto itself.  

"Still Glides the Stream" covers familiar territory for a DES novel, both geographically and thematically. After 12 years of military service, during WWII and afterwards, Will Hastie returns to his father's estate in Scotland to take up farming. His best friend from boyhood, Rae, died during the war, and Rae's younger sister Patty is engaged to her cousin Hugo, who is also (conveniently) the new heir to her father's estate since Rae's death.  Before he died, Rae sent Patty a final letter, hinting at a big secret he hopes to share with the family on his next leave home. When Patty shares the letter with Will, he decides to head to France for a holiday to investigate. What he learns there will change everyone's lives... 

Like Stevenson's other books, this is a warm, gentle little story of a bygone era -- sometimes almost too much so, perhaps? One Goodreads reviewer points out the novel's "Anglo-chauvinism."  For example, the people Will meets in France are almost uniformly disagreeable, to the point of caricature.  And Julie's sacrifice might seem somewhat horrifying to modern readers, but there was likely no doubt in the minds of readers of the day that it was the proper thing for her to do. 

Still, despite its flaws, it's a sweet, rather wistful story of post-war grief and loss, with the well-drawn characters and lovely descriptions that were Stevenson's hallmark.  

3.5 stars on Goodreads, rounded up to 4.  

I've volunteered to organize our group's discussion of this book (after we've finished reading and discussing "Summerhills" together, later this summer)... I suppose I didn't have to read it first to get volunteers and a discussion schedule organized, but I usually read do the book through once myself in advance of our chapter-by-chapter discussions. I'm glad I did it now, and I'll count it again as a re-read once we're finished our discussions, later this summer. 

This was Book #32 read to date in 2021 (and Book #9 finished in May), bringing me to 89% of my 2021 Goodreads Reading Challenge goal of 36 books. I am (for the moment, anyway...!) 18 (!) books ahead of schedule. :)  You can find reviews of all my books read to date in 2021 tagged as "2021 books." 

Saturday, May 29, 2021

Odds & ends

  • Crazy weather this week: Tuesday, we reached 30C and a humidex reading of 35C (that's 86F and 95F). The air conditioner was running non-stop. Yesterday, we woke up to 3C/37F, and rain mixed with... SNOW?!!  On May 28th!!  Gotta love springtime in Canada, lol... 
  • Gateway Women's Jody Day said she wanted to make 2021 her "Year of the Podcast" -- and she's getting her wish, lol. She's been spreading the word about childlessness on one podcast after another recently, including three this month (so far!) -- and most of them outside the childless community, too:  
    • On "A Certain Age" with Katie Fogarty, Jody talked about being childless at midlife and how to be a better friend and ally to the childless women in your life. 
    • On How to Be Sad with Helen Russell, Jody touches on various aspects of childless-related grief (and talks about some things she's never publicly discussed before). 
    • On the Virgin.Beauty.B!tch podcast, Jody takes a deep dive into some of the societal and structural issues around life without children that rarely get discussed -- including how  pronatalism and consumerism have fetishized and commodified motherhood, and how this oppresses all women, whether they are mothers or not. (And how it all started with Demi Moore...!) Says Jody: "This interview goes places other interviews I've done have not." It's fascinating!  
      • I haven't actually listened to all of these yet, but podcast transcripts are available to read on the Gateway Women website, under "News."  
  • In her TEDx talk a while back, Jody called childless people "the biggest workplace diversity issue that HR has never heard of." That's starting to change! Gateway Women operations director Karin Enfield and GW members Shar and Cecilia recently took part in an online conversation about childless women in the workplace. It was hosted by Julia Fomoniva, the founder of an organization called Human Rocks, who is advocating for more support for childless employees in HR policies. They were also joined by Dr. Galina Boiarintseva, Assistant Professor of Management at Niagara University in Ontario, who does academic research into diversity & inclusion policies for childless employees. This is an important issue that is FINALLY beginning to get some attention as a valid concern alongside other diversity and inclusion issues. Watch this groundbreaking conversation on YouTube here
  • I've created a new tag/label for posts on this blog that mention interesting podcasts

Thursday, May 27, 2021

Tuesday, May 25, 2021

"Summerhills" by D.E. Stevenson

My D.E. Stevenson online fan group is just starting to read and discuss "Summerhills" -- a sequel to "Amberwell," which we read last year (reviewed here and here -- and I would definitely recommend reading that book first). I usually read the book through once myself in advance of our chapter-by-chapter discussions, and then count it again as a re-read once we're done. 

It's several years post-WWII (late 1940s), and Major Roger Ayrton is heading home to Amberwell on the west coast of Scotland on a few weeks' leave to see his family -- including his 8-year-old son Stephen; his half-sister Nell, who has has mothered Stephen and held Amberwell and the rest of the family together during the war and since; and his youngest half-sister Anne, who now keeps house nearby for the elderly parish rector.  

It's almost time to send Stephen off to school, but Roger has a plan for that -- one that will keep Stephen closer to home. While he's at Amberwell, he wants to find a nearby property to purchase with his late wife's money, turn it into a school that Stephen and other local boys can attend, and hire his childhood friend Arnold Maddon as headmaster. Another childhood playmate, Mary Findlater, suggests her aging parents' huge, empty home would be the perfect place, and also proposes a new name for the school: Summerhills. 

Roger's eldest half-sister Connie and her badly behaved children make an appearance -- but sadly, we only hear about globetrotting brother Tom through other people's comments and memories. But Tom's friend Dennis returns to Amberwell for a visit, still carrying a secret torch for Nell...  

I loved "Amberwell" and rated it four (4) stars on Goodreads.  Overall, I think it's the better novel of the two. But I was very happy to revisit the Ayrton family and see a few loose ends from the first book tied up nicely. 

3.5 stars on Goodreads, rounded up to 4.  

This was Book #31 read to date in 2021 (and Book #8 finished in May), bringing me to 86% of my 2021 Goodreads Reading Challenge goal of 36 books. I am (for the moment, anyway...!) 17 (!) books ahead of schedule. :)  You can find reviews of all my books read to date in 2021 tagged as "2021 books." 

"Chronicles of Avonlea" by L.M. Montgomery (re-read)

One of the unexpected pleasures that this pandemic has brought into my life has been the L.M. Montgomery Readathon group on Facebook. Over the past year-plus, chapter by chapter, we've read and discussed four classic Montgomery books so far -- including three of my all-time favourites: "Rilla of Ingleside," "Jane of Lantern Hill," "The Blue Castle" -- and, most recently, the short story collection "Chronicles of Avonlea" (all reviewed here on this blog -- my posts related to the group, to the books and to Montgomery herself can be found here).  

Beyond the pleasures of rediscovering Montgomery's wonderful books together, there are also well-researched posts on related subjects ranging from the kinds of flowers Montgomery mentions in her books to candy making to the role of women during the World War I to women's fashions of the time, and much, much more. The group is facilitated by two Montgomery scholars, and the level of knowledge and discussion among the members is sometimes mindblowing. As an almost-lifelong LMM fan, it's been a total blast to take these deep dives into her work and commune with other fans. :)     

(Can I digress just a little here to say I'm more than a little envious....??  The study of Canadian literature ("CanLit") was a relatively new thing when I was at university in the late 1970s/early 1980s, fuelled by the celebration of our country's centennial year in 1967. It was mostly male dominated (Robertson Davies, Mordecai Richler) with perhaps a couple of selections by the two Margarets thrown in for good measure (Atwood -- who had not yet written "The Handmaid's Tale" -- and Laurence). I think there was one CanLit course offered by the English department when I was an honours student. Montgomery -- generally classified as a "children's writer" -- was not yet regarded as a subject worthy of serious academic study.  Through the Facebook group, I've also learned about and sat in on Zoom sessions sponsored by the L.M. Montgomery Institute of the University of Prince Edward Island, on topics including Montgomery's scrapbooks and library (the books she read that influenced her own writing).  It feels like everyone on these calls knows each other from years of attending conferences together and reading each others' LMM-related papers -- they're the cool kids, and I get to sit in the back row and bask in their reflected brilliance and just gobble up all the knowledge, lol....)

(Anyway, back to "Chronicles"...!)  

We're just wrapping up our discussion of "Chronicles." (My initial review of the book from my first read-through is here.)  I'll admit I didn't re-read every single story in the book ;) but I have still been following along with the discussions and occasionally throwing in my two cents. My initial review cautioned that "many of these stories are definitely of their time, and contain themes/elements that those of us who have been through infertility or childlessness might find uncomfortable or even offensive."  I was relieved to find, during our discussions, that others shared my concerns about some of the more more dated elements of the book that haven't aged very well (ALI-related and otherwise).  At the same time, our discussions also deepened my understanding and appreciation of other elements of the stories. 

But, not enough for me to change my initial Goodreads rating, of 3.5 stars, rounded down to 3. :)  

Our next LMM book will be announced shortly. If you're an LMM fan, you are welcome to join us, at the link above!  :)  

This was Book #30 read to date in 2021 (and Book #7 finished in May), bringing me to 83% of my 2021 Goodreads Reading Challenge goal of 36 books. I am (for the moment, anyway...!) 16 books ahead of schedule. :)  You can find reviews of all my books read to date in 2021 tagged as "2021 books." 

Monday, May 24, 2021

#MicroblogMondays: Pronatalism in... hockey?? ;)

Pronatalism applies to guys too! We were watching the local suppertime TV newscast on Saturday night, prior to game #2 of the Toronto Maple Leafs versus Montreal Canadians (playoffs series) -- always a big story hereabouts, of course...!  Earlier this week in Game #1, the Leafs young captain, John Tavares, was injured (concussion), and they expect he'll be out for at least two weeks while recovering. There was a clip of the team's GM being interviewed, and my ears pricked up at one of his comments. I found a transcript of his remarks later, and here's one of the things he said [emphasis mine]: 

The head injury and the concussion is difficult to place a timeline on for when someone is going to return. We handle those in a very conservative nature and handle them very sensitively. We will follow the protocols to a T with that. We can’t replace that element with John and can’t repair it. We have to be very careful and keep in mind that he has a young family and there is an onus on us to protect him and his future in that regard.

I yelled at the TV, "What if he DIDN'T have a young family?  You'd just send him back out there, because his life and health and future is less valuable then??"  

(Dh just rolled his eyes at me, lol. Sorry -- once your eyes are opened to this kind of stuff, you see it EVERYWHERE!) 

You can find more of this week's #MicroblogMondays posts here