Monday, May 25, 2020

#MicroblogMondays: Annoying things & small pleasures (COVID edition)

Annoying things:
  • Seeing news reports of people (groups of mostly young people, it seems) cramming into a downtown park this weekend -- no social distancing, no masks. Seriously??!  One of my friends had commented on Facebook that she was worried about the partial reopenings earlier this week, that if you give some people an inch they'll take a mile, and I think she was right...! 
  • Our neighbours in the unit one below & one over from ours ( = almost directly below our bedroom window), who head out to their balcony to smoke, drink & chat several nights a week -- almost always starting around 11:30 p.m., just as we're usually starting to drift off to sleep. They kept this up all winter long too!!  (I would mutter to dh, "Aren't they cold out there??!")  
  • Jumping almost straight from winter to summer with no real spring... we were still getting snow flurries just two weeks ago (!) & now there's a heat warning for the next few days with temps in the 30C/85F range (not including humidity)... there must be a happy medium...!   
  • Realizing just how out of shape I am, after we started walking again recently... but at least we are trying to improve the situation...!  
Small pleasures:
  • Ordering takeout for Saturday night dinner. :) -- rotisserie chicken & fries the first time, our favourite wood-oven pizza last weekend, and spaghetti agli e olio with rapini from our favourite local Italian restaurant this past Saturday night. The portions were so huge we just split one and saved the other for another dinner (tonight!). We don't have to cook, and we get to enjoy a great meal while supporting a favourite local restaurant (and hopefully keep them in business during these tough times). 
  • Photos of our adorable little Great-Nephew (now 6 months old!) enjoying his new backyard kiddie pool, sent to us by his mom. 
  • (Despite my moaning about the heat warning above...!)  Warm, sunny weather -- at last!!  It's been a VERY looooonnnnngggggg winter (and COVID-19 did not help...)! 
  • Lots of sunshine, streaming through freshly washed windows. 
  • One spectacular sunset after another recently. 
  • Dh brought up the chairs for the balcony from storage, so we can sit out there now with a book & a drink. 
  • Dozens of newly planted trees in the space between our condo building and the new townhouse development behind us. 
You can find more of this week's #MicroblogMondays posts here. (This week is #MM #300!)  

Thursday, May 21, 2020

Odds & ends

  • I have not dared to step on a scale since COVID started keeping us all at home -- at least since early March ( = 2.5 months). (Even before that, the numbers were... ummm... not good.  :p )  And until just recently, the weather has not been conducive to walking, to try to keep those numbers down. A few days ago, however, I screwed up my courage and put on my jeans, which I have worn just ONCE since March 12th (for under an hour, on April 2nd, when we went over to BIL's house to deliver Great-Nephew's Easter goodies).  I could still zip them up. :)  #winning? 
  • Most retail shops with a streetfront entrance ( = not in malls) were allowed to reopen here on Tuesday.  Also this week, the premier (finally) announced the cancellation of the rest of the school year this week (although online learning will continue).   He said he just didn't think it was worth the risk to the kids. There were only a few weeks left in the school year anyway, and from what I remember and have heard, June is generally kind of a writeoff month anyway -- field trips, track & field days, movie days, etc.  Overnight summer camps will not operate this summer, although it's possible some day camps will.
  • I thought we were done being woken up early every morning by noisy construction equipment, after the townhouses behind our condo building were finished and occupied last year. Nope!  Landscaping work has been under way for the past several weeks: workers have been building decks built on all the townhouses, erecting backyard fencing around the perimeter of the property, and (best of all) planting dozens and dozens of trees in the open areas behind the townhouses, between the creek and the laneway, and in the big open space that lies between our building and the townhouses. A lot of trees were (sadly) razed to build the townhouses;  I am very glad to see some are being replaced.  
  • I was so excited to learn that CBC Gem, the CBC's streaming service, will be showing "Normal People," based on the novel by Sally Rooney (which I read last fall & reviewed here), beginning May 27th. There are 12 half-hour episodes;  two new episodes will be released every Wednesday for six weeks. The book was wonderful and the casting & settings look perfect, from the trailer. Looking forward to this! 
  • A rare article about choosing to live without children after infertility, from Chatelaine (one of Canada's oldest & best-known women's magazines). Head & subhead:  "The Fertility Outcome No One Talks About:  I thought I wanted kids. It turned out it wasn’t that simple." Excerpt: 
I didn’t care if motherhood was still on the table. I just wanted this nightmare to be over. I wanted to go back to a life where fertility was not all I thought about. To wake up in the morning and go to the gym before work, instead of the IVF clinic for cycle monitoring—the daily blood work and ultrasound that had been my routine for the better part of the last 18 months. To fill my evenings with Netflix instead of acupuncture. To not feel pitied by those who knew what I’d been dealing with, or like I was leading a secret life when I spent time with those who didn’t.
    • Thank you, Miranda Steele!  (Caveat: there are links to pregnancy-related articles & photos in the "related stories" at the end and interspersed throughout the article.) 

Tuesday, May 19, 2020

The journey back

A Facebook find. :) 

"Eric Carmen: Marathon Man" by Ken Sharp & Bernie Hogya

I was recently challenged by a high school classmate on Facebook to post photos of the covers of five albums that influenced my taste in music, over a period of five days. (No explanations, no reviews, just covers.)  It was REALLY hard for me to pick just five albums (let alone resist explaining why I'd chosen them!), but I did it.

One of the albums I chose was "Raspberries Best" a 1976 greatest hits album I'd owned in high school.  I wanted to include an album that represented the power pop/garage band/new wave sounds I have always loved:  tight harmonies, a hook-laden melody, a catchy guitar riff. It's a sound that dates back to the Beatles & the other British Invasion bands of my childhood (and I did have a Beatles album on my list), but I tried to think about what Beatles/British Invasion-influenced music  I'd listened to and been influenced by myself as a teenager. I considered albums I'd loved in the late 1970s and early 1980s by Cheap Trick, The Knack, The Cars, The Bangles and The Romantics -- but decided to go a little further back to Raspberries, power pop ensemble extraordinaire (whose lead singer, Eric Carmen, went on to a successful solo career). :)

I've written before on this blog about Raspberries and my love of power pop, and how my interest in the band was rekindled. Likewise, posting about the album on Facebook got me checking out Raspberries Facebook fan group, as I do periodically. I was tipped off there about a book on Amazon, available in Kindle format, about lead singer Eric Carmen, written by Bernie Hogya (who runs the Eric Carmen website) with Ken Sharp. Within minutes, I had it downloaded to the Kindle app on my cellphone (thus ending my COVID reading slump, for now anyway, lol).

"Eric Carmen: Marathon Man" is your standard rock & roll biography about one of the most influential yet underrated musicians of the 1970s.  Both Raspberries, his best-known band, and Carmen (as a solo artist and songwriter) had some fabulous hits and critical acclaim, but ultimately never achieved lasting success (albeit they have retained a loyal cult following to this day).  In that respect, their story is reminiscent of another great power pop band of the same era, Big Star (which I wrote about here).

Reading this book, I was reminded of another rock & roll memoir I read earlier this year, "Good Lovin'" by Gene Cornish of the Rascals, another great band that never quite achieved the lasting fame it deserved.  Unlike Cornish's book, there's not a whole lot of sex or drugs here.  Like Cornish's book, there is plenty of rock and roll -- including the sadly familiar tales of internal band rivalries and rifts, clashes of egos, mismanagement, record company ripoffs and legal battles.

Both books were self-published. The benefit of self-publishing is that we get to read a story that we probably wouldn't have seen otherwise, about a great-albeit-lesser-known artist/band. The drawback of self-publishing is the lack of professional oversight. Like Cornish's memoir, "Marathon Man" is LONG (about 470 pages!!), rambling and occasionally repetitive, with some spelling errors that a good proofreader would probably have caught.

The writers did a very thorough job of researching their subject and interviewing Carmen and the members of all the bands he's played with over the years, as well as others he met and worked with along the way. There's plenty of name-dropping and cameo appearances by everyone from John Lennon and Joan Jett to Bruce Springsteen, Joe Walsh, Brian Wilson and Ringo Starr -- and Carmen pulls no punches in letting us know his opinions about everyone, both for better and for worse. (I was tickled to see him give props to Burton Cummings, the former lead singer of the Guess Who and an elder statesman of Canadian rock & roll, from my home province of Manitoba.)

But did we really need to read multiple, detailed versions of the same event from every person involved in it? (Some of the quotes go on for pages -- and it's not always clear whether they came from an interview at the time, or years later in retrospect.) Did we need to see complete tour schedules from 45 years ago? (This kind of material might be interesting to some superfans, but it could have been handled in an appendix at the back.) There's also a lot of very detailed technical explanations about (for example) what microphone was used on what track, what chords were used in what song, and how certain songs came together. Perhaps other musicians might appreciate this knowledge, but most of us simply aren't that interested in that level of detail.

On the flip side, while the level of musical detail in the book is exhaustive, there's very little content about Carmen's personal life, apart from some early chapters about his musical education and awkward school days. I recognize that people are entitled to their privacy, but a little more information might have rounded out the picture better.  At one point, about halfway into the book, he mentions his brother and I thought, "Brother?!  He has a brother??" Apart from names & dates, there's very little information about his two marriages (he's remarried for a third time since this book was written) and two children, although he does talk about how much he loves being a dad. 

For all the book's flaws, though, it was still an interesting and revealing behind-the-scenes look at a great band, singer and songwriter. I especially enjoyed reading the final few chapters about the original Raspberries' reunion shows (2004-09). There's no explanation about why there haven't been any further shows since then (Carmen & the other band members are now all 70 or thereabouts), but it does end the book on a high note.

Even if you're not interested in reading this book, I would highly recommend finding and watching some clips from the Raspberries' reunion shows on YouTube (at one time, you could view an entire concert, but it doesn't seem to be there any more -- although I believe there's a DVD available...), and/or listening to the two live reunion show albums, Live on Sunset Strip and PopArt Live -- and/or the band's original four albums from the early 1970s, of course.  Pure awesomeness. :)

Three stars on Goodreads.

This was Book #14 read to date in 2020 (Book #1 finished in May). I'm currently at 47% of my 2020 Goodreads Reading Challenge goal of 30 books, and am (for the moment, anyway...!) 3 books ahead of schedule to meet my goal. :)

Monday, May 18, 2020

#MicroblogMondays: Reopening for business

Last week, the provincial government here in Ontario announced that all retail stores with a street entrance (i.e., not in a mall) can start reopening (with physical distancing restrictions) tomorrow, Tuesday, May 19th. (Here's an article explaining what's opening up & how. The reopenings will be tomorrow, because today is our Victoria Day statutory holiday/long weekend Monday, when many things would normally be closed anyway.)  Restaurants are still limited to takeout & delivery only, and hair salons & barbershops remain closed (among other things).

Theoretically, this means dh & I could head to the bookstore tomorrow. It's tempting -- we haven't been there since March 12th, more than TWO MONTHS!! (horrors!!) -- but not tempting enough to lure us from our condo, where (dh's weekly-or-so trips to the supermarket and the occasional walk around the neighbourhood aside), we've been holed up since March 12th.  (For one thing, we don't NEED to go to the bookstore, when we have literally shelves and e-readers full of unread books, right here at home...).  I'm inclined to sit back & wait a while to see what happens to the case numbers over the next couple of weeks before venturing out. (It's been 9+ weeks already -- what's another few weeks at this point, right?)

One place I *might* venture before then is to the drugstore. I'm starting to run out of several of my personal care items, and while dh has done a pretty good job to date of finding what I really need, I have a pretty lengthy list of stuff I need or will need soon -- and I'd prefer to be the one deciding on what substitutes I'd be willing to accept (or not), should the items I need not be stock.

When I do eventually head back into a store, I will be wearing one of my sock masks, for the foreseeable future. (Most stores that are open now require them for entry.)  And using hand sanitizer (since I haven't been out much, I still have some in my purse!) when I get back to the car, and washing my hands thoroughly when we get back home.

What's open/not open yet where you are? And when do you think you'll feel safe going back into stores again?

You can find more of this week's #MicroblogMondays posts here

Thursday, May 14, 2020

Sock it to me!

I have yet to venture anywhere that I would need one, but I recently realized I needed to start thinking about getting a face mask (or two, or more) for myself as well as dh.

Medical & N95 masks, of course, are nowhere to be found for purchase right now (and hospitals & medical staff rightfully get first dibs on those). We had two N-95 masks that BIL (who works in construction) gave us at the start of the crisis. Dh has been wearing (& re-wearing) them when he's gone out to shop for groceries -- but there are only so many times you can re-wear these things.  (You're only supposed to wear them once, of course, but dh figures that if drs & nurses are re-wearing theirs in virus-saturated hospital environments, he's probably pretty safe wearing his a couple of times to the supermarket.)

I don't have a sewing machine to make cloth masks.  I thought about ordering something online, but what if I needed a mask before they arrived? I started bookmarking various instructions for no-sew masks -- some involving bandanas/scarves/tea towels/linen napkins/etc. & elastic bands (or hair elastics). One friend swears by masks made from several layers of paper towels & elastics. (Advantage: they're disposable.)

I figured if worse came to worse, I could always just wind a scarf around my face to cover my nose & mouth. After all, I grew up in Canada (and on the Prairies, no less!), where every kid walked to school and played outside in sub-zero temperatures with scarves wound firmly around our faces, hats pulled low on our foreheads, and a narrow slit for eyes to peek out. (At least right now, I wouldn't have to worry about my warm breath wetting my scarf & getting it all damp & soggy)(not to mention frosty, lol.)

Then a friend posted a video showing how to make a simple no-sew mask using nothing but a sock and a pair of scissors. Who doesn't have an old pair of socks they could cut up in a pinch, right?

There are lots of videos out there on YouTube showing how to make a sock mask. Some of the methods differ from video to video. I followed a short video/GIF that a friend posted on Facebook, which I subsequently reposted -- but my mother complained that it went by too fast for her. So I wound up taking photos to demonstrate my method for my mother, and I thought I'd share them here too. :) 

Step one: get a clean old sock and cut it apart just above the ankle/ball of the foot,
so you have a nice length of sock to work with. In some videos they cut off the elastic band at the top. (I didn't bother.) 

Step 2: Cut the sock all the way through along one edge.

Step 3: Open up the sock and fold it in half (the other way).
Make a cut through the fold, about 1/2 or 3/4 of an inch in from the edge.
DO NOT CUT ALL THE WAY THROUGH.
Do the same thing on the other side.

Step 4: Unfold and voila! There's your mask! Pull it over your mouth & nose and loop the slits around your ears.
You can round off the square corners a bit if you like.
It's not as closely fitted as a medical mask or N95, or a tailored cloth mask --
but it's better than no mask at all and very easy to make!
It's also washable & reusable!