- Today is FIVE YEARS (!) since the World Health Organization declared the covid-19 pandemic. You can read all my pandemic-related posts -- from the beginning to present day -- under the label "COVID-19 pandemic." (I've been re-reading some of my posts from those early days of March 2020... surreal...)
- Lisa Sibbett at "The Auntie Bulletin" examines the classic movie musical "Mary Poppins" and the lessons it contains for aunties, in "The Moral of Mary Poppins."
- My mom took my sister & me to see the movie when it (finally) came to the small town where we were living in Saskatchewan, in 1966. For Christmas that year, we got a record player, along with an LP of the movie soundtrack, as well as an album of Julie Andrews singing Christmas carols. (For my 6th birthday a few weeks later, I got "Herman's Hermits Greatest Hits Volume 2" -- which I still have!)
- My high school drama club did "Mary Poppins" as our spring musical the year I was in Grade 11 (in the late 1970s). (Our music teacher wrote Disney to ask about the script and sheet music -- she got some music, but no script, and wound up writing her own, based on a Disney novelization of the movie for children. In hindsight, knowing Disney's firm copyright grip on its properties these days, I find this amazing. I guess they weren't quite as strict on these points back then...!)
- I was cast as Mrs. Banks and, I am proud to report, got to sing "Sister Suffragettes." :) (My feminist credentials have deep roots, lol.)
- "Adoption and Fostering Are Not a Cure for Infertility:" Lisa Kissane shares her personal experience with fostering in "Life Without Children."
- On International Women's Day, Jody Day of Gateway Women reminds us (on her Substack) that "It's International Women's Day... not International Mother's Day!"
- Also on IWD: the Toronto Star is featuring this story: "Revenge of the ‘childless cat lady’: New research shows single women are the happiest people in the world." (The research comes from the University of Toronto.) I realize that not ALL single women are happy about that status (and the article does nod to that), but it's an upbeat look at a subject that is so often mired in stereotypes.
- Happily, the Star recently instituted gift articles for paid subscribers (of which I am one!) Enjoy!
- Jessica Grose, who covers family, religion, education & culture issues for the New York Times, recently wrote in her newsletter about falling birth rates and how to create a more pro-child culture. One of her key points: that shaming childfree people is NOT the way to do it. The article focuses on childfree people (vs childless), but I think it's worth a read. (**CONTENT WARNING: the article is illustrated with a photo of a baby.** )
- There are a couple of other items, including a bit of commentary about the pronatalist movement. And, at the end, a part you may or may not want to skip, about a comedian whose new Netflix special is called "The Mother Lode."
- Labels -- and how unsatisfactory they are -- is a topic that I know many of my CNBC peers grapple with, especially early in their journey. The third post I ever published here (in early November 2007) was on this subject: "Am I childLESS or childFREE?" It's also the topic of Y.L. Wolfe's latest Substack post too: "I Used to Call Myself Childless…But I've Realized I Might Be Childfree, Too."
- Wolfe also muses on how her feelings on certain labels have changed over time -- and how, the older she gets, the more she resists being labelled by others. I can relate to that too.
Tuesday, March 11, 2025
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Great list. I caught up with a friend in the UK, an adoption professional and adoptive mother, who also said to me that adoption is not a cure for infertility. Too many people just assume it is.
ReplyDeleteOooh, I'm looking forward to reading your post on the labels issue. I feel childFREE most of the time, and have done for a good 10-15 years. But I have always resisted any of the labels. I refer to childless a lot more these days just because I know it makes it easier for people, and easier for readers to find me too. But my feelings definitely lean the other way now. That's what time and acceptance and adjustment has done to me! Aside from the fact I wish there was a better description.